A pen pal scheme for young people and older people who are feeling lonely to write to one another. The project was devised by local teenagers to tackle the loneliness that they and older people experience. John aged 93 said “What a wonderful breath of fresh air it was to receive your letter. Please write again and thank you so much.”

Are you over 65 and would like to become a pen pal with a local young person?

Referral form for older people

Click the link, download the form and email a completed version to [email protected] You can also post it to us at ‘Yours Sincerely’, Community Action Network, Boscombe Link, 3-5 Palmerston Road, Bournemouth, BH1 4HN – or phone us on 01202 466130              

Keeping you safe 

All letters will be sent via CAN and screened before being sent on. Addresses aren’t shared between pen pals. Letters may include items i.e. post cards, pieces of art, poems. 

Quotes from our pen pals and others

‘It was lovely to receive your letter. Everyone seems to phone nowadays instead of writing. I like a letter as when I am a bit down, I can re-read it.’

‘I must admit it’s nice to receive letters, something you can physically pick up and read.’ 

‘I’m a man who only really gets bills and circulars in the mail these days and I imagine that when these things drop through the letter box that’s just a bit of sunshine in your day.’ ‘Oh it is yes. I can tell a lot of stories because my life’s been very full, if you like. But her life is just beginning.’

‘I think its very kind of you all to do this, because it does make you communicate with younger people and that means a lot. It means a lot to have the letters and I really enjoy the letters I get.’

‘I really enjoy getting her letters and having the connection: it’s such a lovely concept. Thanks so much.’

‘Dear team, some feedback from someone who is part of the Yours Sincerely project. She has been thrilled with the letters and knitted poppy. She is planning to wear the poppy in future years and wished to express her gratitude to the young person who has been writing to her.’

'My dad (86) received his first letter recently and was so animated about it.  He is now corresponding with an 18 year old who has been matched perfectly with his interests. The letter was detailed, engaging and asked lots of questions; a great project not only to help with isolation and loneliness but also breaking down some stereotypical views between young and old and vice versa. Best wishes and thank you.’

‘This gentleman asked me to pass on his thanks and appreciation for the service. He really looks forward to reading them and will read them at least 2 or 3 times in between receiving the next. He even picked up the most recent and read it this morning. It’s really something he looks forward to, and he is very keen for it to continue! SUCH a great service.‘

Contact us about Yours Sincerely

For further information or if you have any questions about the project, please contact us:  Tel:01202 466130  E: [email protected] 

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